Hello and welcome to iwantmymum.com!

I Want My Mum was started in December 2004 by two mothers, Charlotte Young (breastfeeding counsellor) and Annalisa Barbieri. The idea came about because, having had children the year before, we were rather surprised and frustrated at the conflicting information about the important subject of bringing up baby.

As new mothers it is hard to read all the latest research for yourself. There are lots of parenting sites (some of them very good) but a great many of them perpetuate myths or aren’t manned by ‘real’ people, a lot may be just open message forums based on purely the opinions of other users. We aim to do things differently here. There are two very real mothers behind the scenes who are busy reading the latest research on aspects of child feeding, sleep and development; supported by a team of moderators selected for their experience in that particular field and a team of professionals including Breastfeeding Counsellors, a Bereavement Counsellor, Speech and Language Therapists, a SCBU Nurse, Pharmacist & Midwives

We call this site ‘the progressive parenting website’ because we don’t think knowledge is finite. Whilst we acknowledge that certain things are a ‘given’, research often sheds new light on things. What we really believe in is informed choice because if you make an informed choice, it’s a happy and guilt-free one, one you can rest easy with.

I found I Want My Mum such a wonderful source of information and support, that I bought my best friend a subscription as a present when she got pregnant. Ruth

Here you can chat in our forums to like minded parents (we also have Breastfeeding Counsellors and Midwives on site) about all aspects of your baby and toddler; as well as reading static articles on various subjects from baby led weaning (Gill Rapley was kind enough to visit us for a live chat and take questions from parents) to which sling or baby carrier might best meet your needs or hoe often to feed your baby. We have a fantastic recipe section where we share our favourite recipes.

i want my mum has been a great source of kind, patient and well-informed support; enabling me to happily breastfeed my 11 month old son with confidence. I have made some great friends through this site and recommend to all. Lois

The site is free to look at, but the forums are registered members only; this is to ensure a happy and harmonious environment. Certain parts of the forum (breastfeeding and pregnancy) are free to read and post on – you just need to register - but to join in with others you need to purchase a subscription package. On a more practical level, you can read reviews of buggies and other baby equipment before you make a purchase and also offer things for sale! We also operate a book lending circle.

i want my mum is like going down the pub to meet your mates after work, except you don’t have to leave the house! To me IWMM has just become another part of my hectic life, a big fat positive in a sometimes negative world! Sonja

Please read our board guidelines before posting on the forums.

We’re a baby friendly site, that is to say, we don’t believe babies should be trained or tamed. So this site may not be for everyone, please take a moment to read Our Philosophies to see if you’d like what we do. Or just have a look around!

We hope you enjoy the site.

Charlotte and Annalisa

Please remember that no site should ever be an alternative to seeking medical advice if you think your child or baby needs it. Please take a moment to read our board guidelines and enjoy your stay.
*Annalisa Barbieri has no commercial interest in I WANT MY MUM.

Our Philosophies

We believe that every baby has the right to mature in a safe, supportive and sensitive environment and that every parent has the right to accurate, researched information on which to base their choices. We believe every parent must make decisions that sit most comfortably with their lifestyle and their philosophies.

The other thing we feel passionately about is how much mis-information is given out by the medical establishment - whilst there are some excellent dedicated health workers; some are unfortunately undertrained and overworked.

Many parenting websites expect parents to fall into neat little categories: you’re either an attached parent or you’re not. You’re either into routines or you aren’t. We believe that, with the right information most parents are not one thing or another. They may like a loose routine to stop a slide into madness, but not want to be slaves to one. We try and gently present and share options, remembering that everyone has different circumstances and that all babies are different and unique.

However you don’t need to read very much to realise that breastfeeding is far and away the best way to nourish your baby so we are very much a pro-breastfeeding site and support the World Health Organisation (WHO) International Code of Marketing of Breast Milk Substitutes and the WHO/UNICEF Baby Friendly Hospital Initiative.
We post true and factual information regarding both breastfeeding and formula which is always researched and which usually displays relevant research links (particularly if in answer to a specific question/news article rather than a discussion thread) - if there is any research you would like clarification on please contact the admin team

Please consult your family doctor, midwife or other professional before relying on any information you find here. I Want My Mum is not responsible for the accuracy or content of any posts and is not liable for any damage or loss that may result from your reliance on what other users have said. Posted messages and other information provided by I Want My Mum and its agents and users may represent opinion or judgement. Neither I Want My Mum nor its agents or users guarantee the accuracy or completeness of any information herein.